I have received emails of good advice a couple of times.
This particular one below is interesting and very relevant.
So I decided to post it on my blog to share with my readers.
Not that I have plenty to leave behind but it is a good reminder to myself.
Not too sure who the author is but it seems to be of Chinese origin.
Because
none of us have many years to live, and we can't take along anything when we
go, so we don't have to be too thrifty...
Spend the money that should
be spent, enjoy what should be enjoyed, donate what you are able to donate, but don't leave all to your children or
grandchildren, for you don't want them to become parasites who are waiting for
the day you will die!!
Don't worry about what will happen after we are gone, because when we return to
dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms.
The
time to enjoy the worldly life and your hard earned wealth will be over!
Don't worry too much about your children, for children will have their own
destiny and should find their own way.
Don't
be your children's slave.
Care
for them, love them, give them gifts but also enjoy your money while you can.
Life should have more to it
than working from the cradle to the grave!!
Don't expect too much from your
children.
Caring
children, though caring, would be too busy with their jobs and commitments to
render much help.
(CYCLE/HARSH REALITY OF LIFE; THEIR IMMEDIATE FAMILY WILL TAKE
PRECEDENCE!)
Uncaring children may fight over your
assets even when you are still alive, and wish for your early demise so they
can inherit your properties and wealth.
(THIS HAS HAPPENED TO MANY
RICH FAMILIES!)
Your children take for granted that
they are rightful heirs to your wealth; but that you have no claims to their
money. (ONE
SIDED!)
50-year old like you, don't trade in your health for wealth by working yourself
to an early grave anymore...
Because your money may not
be able to buy your health...
When to stop making money, and how much is enough (hundred thousands, million,
ten million)?
Out of thousand hectares of good farm land, you can consume only three quarts
(of rice) daily; out of a thousand mansions, you only need eight square meters
of space to rest at night.
So, as long as you have enough food
and enough money to spend, that is good enough.
You
should live happily.
Every
family has its own problems.
Just
do not compare with others for fame and social status and see whose children
are doing better, etc., but challenge others for happiness, health, enjoyment,
quality of life and longevity...
Don't worry about things that you can't change because it doesn't help and it
may spoil your health.
You have to create your own well-being and find your own place of happiness.
As long as you are in good
mood and good health, think about happy things, do happy things daily and have
fun in doing, then you will pass your time happily every day.
One day passes without
happiness, you will lose one day.
One day passes with happiness, and then you gain
one day.
In good spirit, sickness will cure;
In a happy spirit, sickness
will cure faster;
In high and happy spirits;
sickness will never come.
With good mood, suitable amount of exercise, always in the sun, variety of
foods, reasonable amount of vitamin and mineral intake, hopefully you will live
another 20 or 30 years of healthy life of pleasure.
Above all, learn to cherish the goodness around... and FRIENDS...
They
all make you feel young and "wanted"... without them you are surely
to feel lost!!
Wishing you all the best.